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I have a quiet sense of humour, outgoing while in a social environment, but I like to study life and the things around me. This duality is brought out by my Gemini nature in all life's adventures. I love nature, the beach, hiking to strange and unique environments. I am adventurous by nature and curious in all things both physical and intellectual. I have been known to dance with my students for hours at the sound of music.

I'm an opportunistic person who seeks co-operation in all matters. I am looking for a soulmate a true friend to share the duality of life--the good and the bad.

On the bad, I am a man with Lilith in Aquarius, and Lilith is a sexual rebel. Lilith (female of course) is incredibly particular with her partner, who must be unique and different from the rest. I am also a Gemini and well loved by women but because of my Lilith in Aquarius I am outspoken (I am a teacher and teach girls empowerment--how to "speak up" go figure) and obsessed with her freedom. I am well educated, and since I am Gemini, I do believe in THE WORD. Therefore, it’s her (Lilith) word against the world; it is important that Lilith in me, learns empathy as part of my karmic duty. I am not darkness; my Lilith in Aquarius can start a revolution all by herself--and I have in the past.

My Chiron is in Scorpio. Chiron symbolises my unhealable injuries and incurable trauma. However, instead of drowning in my own trauma, I am able to accept the trauma and help others who are also suffering. I accept that suffering is part of life, and that Chiron is the key to wisdom, or even to some sort of "Initiation Gate".

Ideal mate description:
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I'm looking for a sincere woman with a tolerant character's humble, honest, understanding, romantic, optimistic, wise and intelligent. She also displays the following qualities:
1. She is clear on the fundamentals first. That is what a relationship needs, trust, honour and respect, communication, the ability to grow and adapt to change, a willingness to commit, to display love in action, attraction, and friendship
2. She prioritizes NEEDS over wants. That is, she has the same morals and beliefs, and sees wants as a bonus
3. She sees dating as a character assessment process (it takes time to know a partner, you cannot know after a few weeks, or months)
4. She looks at facts not feelings
5. She looks at patterns not potential or promises from her partner
6. She asks herself 3 questions:
a) How do I feel when I am with him?
b) Does he add value to my life?
c) How does he handle conflict?
7. She is able to look at her own self-sabotage behaviour and corrects it before she pushes him away
8. She is willing to be a good partner first!
9. She has grace with boundaries, meaning that she is willing to give him space and knows that he is only human himself.